I’d been thinking for weeks about writing about why no one really talks about being broken hearted or even sharing about the struggles of it or the most important one how you got over it?
Now I’m sick of hearing time heals all wounds… what really fucking helps? Scotch on the rocks and girl power movie? Listening to every sad love song til you scream and cry? Or just pretending you’re okay?
If you’ve had your heart broken why aren’t you sharing how you got from point A to point B? You were a crying sad mess before now you’re a somewhat stable human being? Why the secrets? Is it because no one understood or cared so you want those people one day to suffer exactly what you went through and be like see I told you it sucks.
At the moment I have people in my life who get it. And then people who sweep it under the rug with you’ll be okay.
I am not fucking okay!!?
But it’s like I’m not allowed to be, people shy away or avoid sadness and hurt like its a disease when all you want is help from it. But its like I’m a bad person for it cause I’m not a happy in love person no more.
We seek in life love and happiness and sometimes theres walls to climb before we get there or we’ve gotta climb a few. Some walls are bigger then others and you need help, we all need help. Stop avoiding someones sadness as a mood killer but as a cry for help we all want the same thing Happiness. And sometimes we seek those who are happy to find it again. Then why aren’t you sharing your stories of struggle and how you got here today? We are only but seeking hope, hope that we too can get from point A to point B.
Being heart broken is sad but it shouldn’t be avoided or not talked about nor “fuck that person you deserve better” or “theres plenty of fish in the sea.”
We are just people who have forgotten how to swim. Teach us how to be strong swimmers again, helps us swim through the currents and enjoy the surf again. It takes time but you have to remind us.